Collaborative Divorce

In a collaborative divorce, the parties and their attorneys cooperate and are actively involved to resolve marital conflict in a straight forward and effective manner that does not involve the Court in any adversarial way.

In this process the parties and attorneys agree to communicate respectfully and constructively with each other to settle legal issues promptly and economically.  Before the process begins, all the participants -- lawyers and clients -- formally contract to work together to resolve all legal issues.

To reach a settlement using collaborative family law, the lawyers initiate four-way meetings between themselves and their clients.  When indicated other professionals, such as therapist and financial experts, are involved in the process.   The meetings promote improved communication and cooperation -- and nourish an environment that fosters analysis and reasoning. This helps generate options and creates a positive context for settlement while giving both parties control over the outcome. The commitment to continued cooperation -- even if communication becomes difficult -- also increases the likelihood of a solution where everybody wins.  No documents are prepared or filed with the Court except by mutual agreement of all concerned.

The client’s role is to participate in good faith to reach a negotiated agreement that focuses the fair and equitable interest of both parties.  The primary focus will be in fashioning a resolution that will serve the children’s best interests, while respecting the parties’ individual concerns.  Other advantages include: lower cost, client involvement, reduced stress, creativity.

Patricia is a certified mediator and received her interdisciplinary collaborative practice training and is a fellow of the Collaborative Law Institute of Illinois and International Academy of Collaborative Professionals. Patricia has successfully assisted her clients to "think outside the box" and create unique and effective ways to resolve their current disputes. Divorce does not have to end with resentment and anger. When you free yourself from past restraints, you allow yourself to create a life full of love and possibilities.